Well said. Thank you for this, especially everything under “what a man can and should do.” I keep repeating all these points ad nauseam in conversations about abortion, but I’m not sure it’s getting through. This (abortion, birth control, unwanted pregnancy) is still largely viewed as a woman’s problem. And I’ve been told (by “enlightened” men!) that women use unwanted pregnancies to force them into relationships. Where did they miss out on sex ed and the “wrap it up” lesson?